Job changing success versus being lost in Yonkers

When one works for others (pick your poison), two things routinely occur: either you enjoy what you do, or you find yourself going through the motions.
When you have a passion for what you do, the days pass quickly. Your performance usually reflects the quality of your efforts.
For those whose life’s mission amounts to earn­ing a steady paycheck, changing employment qualifies as a reluctant chore. Work performance rarely exceeds adequate and most workdays drag. For these jobseekers, changing employment usually amounts to falling off the side of building into a dark alley, while being lost in Yonkers.
With few exceptions, the job searching poses a challenge. For most, it is damn-hard work. Anytime one undertakes a formidable task, the individual’s stress level sores. When that stress persists, other side effects surface. (Some jobseekers become downright irrational. Others become physically ill. A few might qualify for therapy.)
Recently, a stressed-out jobseeker contacted me. He informed me he had written several versions of résumé, and then proceeded to educate me about the résumé prep process. I was curious as to how many résumés he had prepared. Upon inquiring about his employment status, he revealed he had been unemployed more than a year.
A smile of incredulity came upon me: Being lectured by an unsuccessful jobseeker had a surrealistic effect, leaving the impression that one of us maybe divorced from reality. Nonethe­less, I listened with empathy as he provided instructions on how he wanted me to proceed in creating a functional résumé.
The caller nor his situation was unique. Such inquiries arrive weekly. Each needs help, but many do not know how to obtain assistance. In the alternative, they double-down and recycle previously failed efforts that might somehow return different results.
The gestalt of job-hunting success is greater than its individual parts. Those elements often include a written strategy, networking, perfecting interviewing skills, a decent résumé (or vita), eating habits and exercise, correcting credit reports and maintaining quality references. ¨


The ultimate challenge, however, comes down to appearing authentic—both on the résumé and in the interview. Being able to persevere to that decisive moment amounts to successfully integrating the entire process.
Most jobseekers entertain ambitious aspirations, yet hold a mixed understanding of what is required to reach their employment objective. Somewhere between one’s aspirations and the ability to marshal one’s collective resources lies true job-changing success.



  Those who acquire their employment status through marriage, friendship or inheritance qualify as exceptions.
¨  Each of these topics has been addressed in other articles.
Copyrighted (c) 2015 by Robert James
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